{"id":3563,"date":"2012-09-02T17:37:19","date_gmt":"2012-09-03T00:37:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/2012\/09\/ask-howard\/"},"modified":"2012-09-08T13:43:12","modified_gmt":"2012-09-08T20:43:12","slug":"ask-howard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/2012\/09\/02\/ask-howard\/","title":{"rendered":"Ask Howard"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.dallasvoice.com\/howard-2-10124428.html\" target=\"_blank\">from Dallas Voice<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<h1>Ask Howard<\/h1>\n<p><strong>How to do what\u2019s wrong right<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.dallasvoice.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/08\/Howard-Russell-logo.jpg\" alt=\"Howard-Russell-logo\" width=\"225\" height=\"auto\" align=\"left\" \/> <strong> HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL\u00a0 | Special Contributor<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dear Howard,<\/strong><br style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px\" \/>I am not a sex addict. At 43, however, I\u2019ve come to terms with the fact that I\u2019m one of those rare men whose libido increases rather than diminishes with age. My favorite quote is from James Frey\u2019s A Million Little Pieces, about his own addiction struggles: \u201cWhen one lives without fear, one cannot be broken.\u201d I no longer live with fear like I used to of being unable in middle age to find casual sex partners as easily as I once did. I work out a lot, I\u2019m well endowed and my hair is as thick now as it ever was! Just this past weekend, I even scored a kid on Grindr born in 1993! Just thought I\u2019d share this philosophy with you, man, for your readers out there in my same, testosterone-filled shoes. \u2014\u00a0<em style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px\">Glorious Dude<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Dear Gloriana,<br style=\"margin: 0px; padding: 0px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Your private-life \u201cphilosophy\u201d reeks of exactly the same psychotic disclaimers absolved during intros to bareback porn DVDs: \u201cThe following video fantasy is being presented as a viable alternative to actual sexual contact with another person(s). This is presented solely as a visual fantasy. Some of the precautions of this visual fantasy may have been omitted for editorial considerations but have been used continuously throughout the production of this video.\u201d In other words, Gloriana, no matter how many times one rereads your convictions, nothing you\u2019re pushing still makes one lick of sense.<\/p>\n<p>[ <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dallasvoice.com\/howard-2-10124428.html\" target=\"_blank\">click to continue reading at dallasvoice.com<\/a> ]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>from Dallas Voice Ask Howard How to do what\u2019s wrong right HOWARD LEWIS RUSSELL\u00a0 | Special Contributor Dear Howard,I am not a sex addict. At 43, however, I\u2019ve come to terms with the fact that I\u2019m one of those rare men whose libido increases rather than diminishes with age. My favorite quote is from James [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":26,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3,6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3563","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture-art","category-mirth"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/26"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3563"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3563\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bigjimindustries.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}